You're much more advanced in life generally than I am because I have kids even got kids. I would say you're probably more emotionally evolved, you know, I but yeah but I think we're in the same vicinity. Yeah, you know, and that's sort of like not quite midlife, definitely post quarter life. I have you don't have a five month old at home now it's amazing. A baby. Hit the reset button. So not

getting much sleep, but I'm having a good time.

That's awesome. Yeah, yeah, you were, you were expecting the last time we hung out, right? Yeah. I was so that was like yeah. The last time we hung out I was like six months ago. Hmm. Wow. So this is number 2 for you right now. Number three, number three.

Yeah. So I have a 15 year old an 11 year old and then now is a five-month-old so,

so great. It is, it is really awesome. I love I love being a dad. Is my favorite thing in the world. Does anything change after the third? Because I know, like, after the first, that's a big shift in terms of your perspective, that's got to be a big shift in terms of your perspective on just like life. Well,

you know, it's interesting when I I had my kids. I remember my mom saying how much better it was to be a grandmother than it was to be a mother. And I remember I asked her. So what do you mean by that? She says, well, when you have your kids, you're like you're worried, you're working and I need to take care of all these things and then they grow up and you're like, wow, I missed so much. I wish I could do that again. And so then when you had she had grandkids, she was just more present, more calm. And I kind of feel like that with my my baby because my besides him, my daughter's 11, And so I have 11 years, so I'm so much more present so much more calm than I was with the first

two. So it is a different experience. Well, you probably you proved, you become a lot more aware totally of how fast time flies. It's

so fast, it's crazy, especially with kids because

they change so quickly.

I mean, my five month, you know, five months ago my son was like a total newborn now he's like a baby and that's in a five-month period and it just keeps doing that until they They're like

in their 20s. Wow, that's really crazy. That's insane.