It's, it's such a joy talking to you. I am just loving, just the back and forth, and being able to find so many of the answers. I've been thinking about, in speaking with you and reflecting together, I could do this with you for hours. But we have two lost segments that we do on on purpose that I want to do with you. One is called fill in the blanks, so I'm To read out some sentences and you have to fill in the blanks to start off with. So, are you ready?
Yeah. Okay. I'll try I'm very proud that those men.
Are you gonna be great? You're gonna be great. Okay, true. Love is True
love is living with those differences that you think you can never tolerate.
I love it. Great answer. Okay. Great. Partners are funny. They
know how to bring in humor, just when you're about to bite,
that is my wife. My wife is a genius that she's so, and it comes naturally to her. I
had one like that too. I bless him for being able to make me laugh. The moment that we could go down that path, that is just like me. Absolutely
conflicts in relationships are defeating,
but but part of relationships conflict are part of relationships. And yet, they can be. So defeating
couples therapy is couples.
Therapy is the place where you create a safe and provocative. I meant to check yourself as you walk in and stop focusing on checking your partner and leaving yourself out of the game.
Amazing, great, aunt, sassy. That was, that was great. You don't know. No.
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