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Hey, it's Ryan holiday. Welcome to a very special episode of The Daily stoic podcast. We're going to do a deep dive here on a singular Topic at length and it's an important one. I think one of the most essential practices of all of stoic philosophy and I think life itself something I build each one of my own morning's around talking about journaling. So today's episode. We're titling the art of journaling how to start journaling the benefits of
journaling and so much more and this is a Timeless art I would say and as you'll hopefully see so journaling is not just a little thing you do to pass the time to write your memories down. Although it can be it's really a strategy that has helped brilliant and powerful and wise people become better at what they do Oscar Wilde Susan Sontag. Wh Auden Queen Victoria John Quincy Adams Ralph Waldo Emerson Henry David Thoreau, Virginia Woolf Joan Didion, John Steinbeck, Sylvia Plath.
Shawn Green Mary Chesnut, Brian koppelman and these nin Franz Kafka and Ben Franklin all of these were journalist just to name a few and it was for them as so many others what Foucault called a weapon of spiritual combat a way to practice their principles to be creative and Purge. The mind of agitation was part of who they were and it made them who they were and it can make you better to whether you're brand new to the concept of journaling or you've
Journaled in the past and have fallen out of practice. Today's guide to journaling should give you everything you need to know to help make journaling one of the best things you do this year and Beyond will learn not only how to journal but the benefits of journaling the famous journalist the last two thousand years the best journals to use in more and let's get right into it. So the benefits of journaling and it's true. There's a bunch of scientific-based benefits to this according to a study conducted by the Harvard Business School participants who journaled at the end of each day.
Had a 25% increase in performance when compared to a control group that didn't as the researchers conclude our results reveal reflection to be a powerful mechanism behind learning confirming the words of the American philosophers psychologists in educational reformer, John Dewey. We do not learn from experience. We learn from reflecting on experience. So that's why for me I try to journal in the morning and then also in the evening, it's this sort of push and pull another study by Cambridge University found that journaling helps.
Improve well-being after traumatic and stressful events participants were asked to write about events for 15 to 20 minutes and that resulted in improvements in physical and psychological Health. Look one of the ways to get something off your shoulders or off your mind I think is to get it out on the page. We've also seen a Stanford University study that found improved communication skills. There's a critical relationship between writing and speaking and writing reflects clear thinking and in turn improves communication a study by the Journal of Social and personal relationships.
On the right in focused on positive outcomes and negative situations decreases emotional stress. I found this myself improve sleep. We even see from the Journal of experimental psychology that journaling before bed decreases cognitive stimulation rumination and worry allowing you to fall asleep faster and that's why Seneca talks about this evening reviews as he waits for his his wife to go to bed and he sits down and he sort of reviews the day with himself and then finally research published by the Journal of experimental psychology.
I found that reflective writing reduces intrusive and avoidant thoughts about negative events and improves working memory these improvements in turn free up our cognitive resources for other mental activities, including our ability to cope more effectively with stress. So let's get into it. I think the first thing you want to do with journaling is you want to bring your problems to your journal on June 12 1942 a young girl named Anne Frank made her first entry to her famous existentially essential Journal.
I hope you'll be a great source of comfort and support she wrote in 24 days after that first entry and and her Jewish Family were forced into hiding in the cramped attic above her father's Warehouse in Amsterdam, and they would spend the next two years there according to her father and didn't write in her journal every day. She wrote when she was upset or dealing with the problem and she wrote when she was confused. She wrote in her journal as a form of therapy. So as not to unload her troubled thoughts on the family and can Patriots with whom she shared
Such difficult conditions and one of her best and most insightful lines must have come on a particularly difficult day paper. She says has more patience than people and when we were talking about the research when we're saying that journaling helps improve well-being during trauma and stress similarly a University of Arizona study showed that people were better able to recover from divorce and move forward if they journaled on the experience and so keeping a journal is a common recommendation from psychologists because it helps
patients stop obsessing and allows them to make sense of the many inputs emotional external and psychological that would otherwise overwhelm them and there's some interesting examples of this to Shia LaBeouf's court-mandated journaling on his childhood trauma became the screenplay for his critically acclaimed honey, boy, it was part of sussing out my past a flashlight to your soul trying to get to know myself like shedding of his skin in a way. He said one of the most effective acts of self-care happily is one of the cheapest
As Haley feeling of the New York Times wrote about her own journaling practice. She said I started when I was in a place when I would have tried anything to feel better. And so look your journaling is not about performing for history. It's about reflecting. It's about working through problems. It's about figuring out things and clearing your head. And so right about the frustrating people you encounter today the comment that tweet the news headline that made you Furious right about the wounds you carry from childhood the person who didn't treat you right the terrible experience the parent who's too busy.
Z or two critical or too tired dealing with their own crap to help you and the sources of anxiety or worry or frustrations that pop up in the worst times the reasons you have trouble staying in a relationship whatever problems you're dealing with take them to your journal and you'll be surprised at how you feel after let's also talk about leaving destructive thoughts in your Journal Eugene delacroy who is called stoicism his consoling religion who struggled as we all struggle with occasional even frequent internal torment. He said my mind is
Newly occupied and use the scheming they burn me up and lay my mind to waste the enemy is within my Gates. And so when he writes later that I am taking up my journal again after a long break, I think it may be a way of calming this nervous excitement that has been worrying me for so long. That's what we're trying to get you to do as Tim Ferriss has said I don't journal to be productive. I don't journal to find great ideas or put down Pros. I can publish later. The pages aren't intended for anyone but me I'm just caging my monkey.
And on paper so I can get on with my fucking day. And yes, this is what journaling is about instead of carrying around the baggage in our heads or our hearts. You put it down on paper. Julia Cameron has called it spiritual windshield wipers and that's wonderful. I talk about myself about how when I've been angry. I've journaled and I prevent I've caught myself from doing things or saying things. I would like I would later regret Marcus Aurelius is constantly go down the list of those who felt intense anger at something the most famous the most
Did the most whatever and ask where is that all now smoke dust Legend not even Legend and imagine. He's doing this in his journal and it's hopefully preventing him from doing things that he'll regret and we shouldn't just think of journals as damage control. You can keep a journal for your grandchildren in Walter. Isaacson's wonderful biography of Leonardo da Vinci. He spends a lot of time dissecting and exploring the ideas in DaVinci's notebooks as Isaacson observed of DaVinci's lifelong habit 500 years later.
Later, Leonardo's notebooks are still around to astonish and Inspire us 50 years from now our own notebooks. If we work up the initiative to start them will be around to astonish and Inspire our grandchildren unlike our tweets and Facebook posts paper. He said is the best technology ever invented and Marcus Aurelius is an example of this as Bland Branch ered rights of Marcus few now care about the marches encounter marches of Roman commanders what centuries claim to is a notebook of the thoughts of a man whose real life.
Was largely unknown who put down in the midnight dimness not the events of the day or the plans of tomorrow, but something of far more permanent interest the ideals and aspirations that he live by so stop wasting your time tweeting and chattering and texting sit down with a notebook create something that if the centuries don't cling to at least your family. Will your notebooks will be around for 50 years isakson said your grandchildren or your great grandchildren, they'll be around maybe 500 years. That's awesome.
So journal for your future self as well, if your grandchildren don't care produce something that will give you something to look back on Derek siver's who's a great writer and performer. He says, you know, those people whose lives are transformed by meditation or yoga or something like that for me. It's writing in my diary and journals. It's made all the difference in the world for my learning reflecting and peace of mind for over 20 years every night. He takes a few minutes to jot down a few sentences to recap his day, but what's so transformative about that he says,
So often make big decisions in life based on the predictions of how we think will feel in the future or what will want but your past self is your best indicator of how you actually fell in similar situations. It's talking about journaling for your future self. You'll want to go back and look and he says this will help you make better decisions. So this is important like how often do you actually consult your past self to make decisions? Could you do so and if you did this more you'd get better that's why journaling is transformational journaling Maria Popova has said is a
practice that teaches us better than any other The elusive art of solitude how to be present with our own cells bear witness to our experience and fully inhabit. Our inner lives. I think that's beautifully said, I would also suggest that you forget all the rules about journaling just do what's right people go. What's the best way to journal? Which one should I buy? How many pages should I do how much time forget that who cares how you Journal is much less important than why you are doing it and that you are doing it. So get something off your chest have quiet time with
Thoughts clarify your thoughts separate the harmful from the insightful prepare for the day review the day. There's no right way or wrong way. Just do it. When Charles Darwin started his little diary at the age of 29. He filled the pages with everything he could remember until eventually he was up-to-date and then he shifted to daily notable events Thomas Edison made his objective to record mundane details about his day. He writes things like went into a drug store and bought some candy that might seem unimportant but for him, it was the process Mark Twain at us.
Section in his diary for dirty jokes General Patton had a section for daily affirmations. Like do your damnedest always always do more than what is required of you and you can be what you will be Thomas Jefferson's morning journaling routine began by taking weather measurements such as temperature and wind speed and precipitation Beethoven like to use his journal to whatever he wished. He'd said in previous conversations Hemingway brought his journal everywhere recording expenses and even tracking his wife's menstrual cycles Benjamin.
Clean used his to chart his progress to chart his moral progress. George Marshall kept not a diary but a little book of names of people whose careers he wanted to advance. The point is there's lots of ways to do it. There are no rules. The pages are for your eyes. Only be your weirdest self be your most curious self be your most prolific horrible idea having self dump out everything that's in your mind. There's no right way. There's only your way so just do it.
And remember what Dela Cruz said, he said I am taking up my journal again after a long break. I think it may be a way of calming this nervous excitement that has been troubling me for so long. Yes, that is what journaling is about. It's a few minutes of reflection that both demands and creates Stillness to break from the world a framework for the day ahead. Just find what works for you and then do it because it may well be the most important thing you do all day. So let's talk a little bit about how to journal. I recommend starting small the writer.
Clear talks a lot about the idea of atomic habits small act that makes an enormous difference in your life in this started with something. He learned from Leo Buddha his advice for people who want to start flossing start by flossing just one tooth. If you want to start exercising start with a minute or two a day if you want to eat healthy eat one vegetable so start exceedingly small and that's why my journaling routine starts with a one line add a journal Tim Ferriss recommends the five-minute journal. The point is just start something really small.
All really simple. Don't try to overreach and fail start with something. You definitely can do doesn't have to be Nobel prize-winning Pros. Just get a word down on paper every day. Another way you can do this is to track something in your Journal most people drop the journaling habit or never begin out of intimidation. The blank page is scary. Where do I start? I don't have anything to say as the one line of Journal does for me. It's I'm just writing one sentence about the day that just happened that gets me going, but you could also track your workouts.
You could track your diet. You could track as Hemingway. Did your wife's menstrual cycle? It doesn't matter James Clear records his push-ups Daniel Kahneman The Economist talks about keeping track of decisions. You've made just list what you're grateful for Austin kleon keeps a log book writing simple things that have occurred. It doesn't matter track something. This is a way to get started. You can use your journal to prepare in the morning. This is what Marcus Aurelius did he opens book to of meditations with sort of a preparation and
meditation on the day ahead. We both the daily still Journal about this it gives you a prompt a meditation and intention for the Day begin with that and when I start with it in the morning, it's what am I going to work on today? How am I going to get better today conversely you can use the journal to review your day in the evening. This is what Seneca said he wrote when the light has been removed in my wife has fallen silent aware of this habit. That's now mine. I examine my entire day and go back over what I've done and said hiding nothing from myself passing Nothing by Church.
All said he would interrogate himself each day. I try Myself by court-martial. He said to see if I have done anything effective during the day. I don't just mean pawing at the ground or going through the motions, but something really effective. So a journal is a way to practice this self-awareness this review and we can't get better unless we're focusing on where we can get better and what we can do better. Another thing you can do is copy down important quotes in your Journal. This is what meditation is multiple times in.
Stations Marcus quotes some of his favorite playwrights. He quotes poets. He quotes epicurus democratise Play-Doh Epictetus over and over again. He's drawing on things. Another word for this kind of Journal is a commonplace book all sorts of famous people as one said of HL Mencken methodically filled notebooks with incidents recording scraps of dialogue and slang record. What you like. This is a way to get better. It's also a way to prime the pump in his book Old School.
Thomas Wolfe semi-autobiographical character takes the time to type out quotes and passages from great books. So he can feel these words flowing through his fingers. You can even go to the Ronald Reagan Presidential Library in see the note cards his version of a journal which he kept in these scraps of anecdotes and words and stories and quotes are what made his famous speeches. There's even a book called the note cards, which is the note cards of Ronald Reagan. You can brainstorm ideas in your Journal Beethoven was
Rarely seen without his notebook even went out for drinks as one of his biographers wrote when Beethoven was enjoying a beer. He might suddenly pull out his notebook and write something in it. Something just occurred to me. He would say sticking it back into his pocket the ideas that he tossed off separately with only a few lines and points and without bar lines are hieroglyphics that no one can decipher the sin these tiny notebooks you concealed a treasure of ideas again Pliny the Elder talks about being out hunting and grabbing his notebook and writing down.
And ideas that would become some of his writing Thomas Edison kept a notebook titled private idea book again where he did the same thing entrepreneur and author James altucher carries with him a waiter's pad that he uses as a journal. So again, forget the rules do what works. You can also check out the bulletproof Journal method which is an interesting way to take down notes Rider Carol who created the bullet Journal method is an interesting guy. I have it bullet journal and it's where I do some of my more freeform journaling each day. You should check that out. It's a good way to
Review your day review what's going on? It's a great place for keeping idea. So check that one out. And then I thought we could conclude here by reviewing some famous journalist throughout history and their methodology. So let's talk about Marcus Aurelius. This is a great quote from him the recognition that I needed to train and discipline my character not to be sidetracked by my interest in rhetoric not to write treaties or abstract questions or deliver moralizing little sermons or compose imaginary descriptions of the simple life for the man who lives only for others.
Steer clear of oratory poetry and letters not to dress up not just to stroll around the house or things like that to write straightforward. And what's so beautiful about his meditations is that he is writing straightforwardly bluntly authentically directly to himself. And of course Anne Frank as we've talked about as she said for someone like me. It was a very strange Habit to write in a diary. Not only have I never written before but it strikes me that later. Neither. I nor anyone else will care for the outpouring.
In of a 13 year old school girl how wrong she was and what an incredible Legacy that journal turned out to be let's look at Henry David Thoreau is the poet bound to write his own biography. He said, is there any other work for him but a good Journal we do not wish to know how his imaginary hero but how he the actual hero lived from day to day and that's what throws journals are. He is a two million Word Journal that he started keeping at age 20 and then he kept until six months before his death so that
So almost 25 years of journaling there 2 million words and incredible output Mark Twain keeping a journal is the various Pastime in the world and the pleasantest only those rare Nature's that are made of pluck endurance devotion and Duty for Duty steak and Invincible determination, May hope to venture upon so tremendous and Enterprise as keeping a journal when Mark Twain was 21 A teacher told him my boy. You must get a little memorandum book and every time I tell you a thing put it down right away and that's what he did and that's
It's what produced His Brilliant writings and these nin. She said I believe I could never exhaust the supply of material line within me the deeper. I plunge the more I discover there is no bottom to my heart and no limit to the acrobatic Feats of my imagination. That's what her journal was Marcus Aurelius talks about how we people look for retreats in the country and by the coaster in the Hills, but actually your soul is the best place to look that's what journaling allows us to do. I do have some recommendations on journaling the
We still Journal obviously five-minute Journal is great one line of day Journal as I've talked about the artists way morning Pages Journal by Julia camera is great the bullet Journal method James Clear has the clear habit Journal Austin kleon has the steal like an artist Journal. There's a becoming a guided journal for discovering your voice, which is also great. And of course the bullet Journal is also great. So look, this is a special episode. We haven't done a lot of these, but I just wanted to dive into a subject that sort of near and dear to my heart.
Art before I recorded this to you this morning. I sat down with the three journals that I use took me about 5 minutes, maybe 10 minutes. It's centered me. Then I went for a long walk some of those thoughts that I put down on the page. We're still bouncing around. It's just a way of getting started and I know probably seems like because I'm a writer that's why I'm recommending the journal know I think everyone should do it. It doesn't matter who you are. It doesn't matter. If you're the smartest person or the dumbest person if you have the most interesting life for the most boring life, you will be better for sitting down with the
Just of a journal. I promise you it will be the best habit you start and honestly, I don't think there's really a separation between journaling and stoicism. It's honestly it's hard to know where one begins and the other ends. You could say that stoicism is journaling and journaling is a form of stoicism. So I hope you get started again. There are no rules no expectations. Just do it. Obviously. I'm a little biased I recommend the daily stoic Journal which starts you with a prompt you review in the morning and then
With a prompt that gets you set for the day you're supposed to meditate on how you're going to live up to this prompt. And then the evening you do the review that Seneca talked about where you reflect on how you did / that thing and then each week There's a set of Stewart quotes and some exercises a little meditations for me. It's about 20,000 words of writing in there from me. So it's basically a book you can read as your journaling. So thanks for listening. Check it out. Please start journaling. It'll be the best habit. You start this year
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