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Can Kara be Vulnerable?
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Kara Swisher, Brené Brown
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Dec 17, 2020
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If you put shame in a Petri dish, it needs three things to grow into every corner of our lives: secrecy, silence, and judgment. But if you put the same amount of shame in a Petri dish and you douse it with empathy, you've created a hostile environment. The minute you know you're not alone and that your experience is human and you're met with empathy, shame just doesn't
survive.
Shame Drives Narcissism; Empathy Kills Shame
The thing about shame is we all have it, no one wants to talk about it, and the less you talk about it, the more you have
it.
Shame Is a Feeling of Inadequacy; Everyone Experiences It
Shame is completely self-focused. In fact, of all the kind of personality disorders, shame drives narcissism more than anything else. I define narcissism as the shame-based fear of being
ordinary.
Shame Drives Narcissism; Empathy Kills Shame
My hypothesis was fear was the greatest barrier to daring leadership; it turns out it's not ... If fear is not the greatest barrier to daring leadership, what is it? And it turned out that the answer is armor. It's not that we're afraid; it's how we self-protect when we're afraid that gets in the way of being
courageous.
Armor Is the Greatest Barrier to Daring Leadership, Not Fear
The difference between vulnerability and fear is vulnerability is about showing up when you can't control the
outcome.
Vulnerability Means Showing Up When You Can't Control the Outcome
The best way to describe shame is the feeling that we experience when we don't feel good enough, when we feel not blank enough—smart enough, pretty enough, strong enough, powerful enough, influential enough, relevant
enough.
Shame Is a Feeling of Inadequacy; Everyone Experiences It
If you take in all the data about what people think, you will lose the ability to be brave with your life ... If you don't care what anyone thinks, you lose your capacity for
connection.
Make a List of People Whose Opinions Matter
Shame is self-focused. Empathy is other
focused.
Shame Drives Narcissism; Empathy Kills Shame
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Kara Swisher Introduces Brené Brown
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Shame Is a Feeling of Inadequacy; Everyone Experiences It
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Shame Drives Narcissism; Empathy Kills Shame
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Kara Swisher's Dad Died When She Was 5
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Vulnerability Means Showing Up When You Can't Control the Outcome
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Brené Brown Doubts Kara Swisher's Vulnerability Skepticism
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Make a List of People Whose Opinions Matter
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Brené Brown Has Strict Corporate Speaking Gig Requirements
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Brené Finds Leaders Who Lack Self-Awareness Difficult to Coach
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Brené Brown Explains Donald Trump's Rise to Power
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How Would Brené Help Donald Trump Cope With His 2020 Election Loss?
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Brené Brown's Advice to Republicans Upset About Donald Trump's Loss
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Armor Is the Greatest Barrier to Daring Leadership, Not Fear
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Brené Brown Admires Joe Biden's Leadership Capabilities
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Men & Women Have Different Shame Triggers: Weakness vs. Perfection
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Kara Swisher Thinks Elizabeth Warren Is Like a Schoolmarm
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Women Leaders Were More Successful at Limiting COVID-19 Deaths
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Kara Swisher Interlude
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COVID-19 Revealed the Need for Courageous Leadership Amid Vulnerable Times
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After COVID-19, Brené Will Never Take Social Gatherings for Granted
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Brené Brown Calls for More Regulation Against Facebook
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If Brené Brown Could Be a Superhero, Who Would It Be?
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For Brené Brown, Parenting Is an Exercise in Vulnerability
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Kara Swisher Remembers Crying While Having a Stroke
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Brené & Kara Outro
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Kara Swisher Outro
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AD: E*TRADE
Kara Swisher Introduces Brené Brown
Shame Is a Feeling of Inadequacy; Everyone Experiences It
Shame Drives Narcissism; Empathy Kills Shame
Kara Swisher's Dad Died When She Was 5
Vulnerability Means Showing Up When You Can't Control the Outcome
Brené Brown Doubts Kara Swisher's Vulnerability Skepticism
Make a List of People Whose Opinions Matter
Brené Brown Has Strict Corporate Speaking Gig Requirements
Brené Finds Leaders Who Lack Self-Awareness Difficult to Coach
Brené Brown Explains Donald Trump's Rise to Power
How Would Brené Help Donald Trump Cope With His 2020 Election Loss?
Brené Brown's Advice to Republicans Upset About Donald Trump's Loss
Armor Is the Greatest Barrier to Daring Leadership, Not Fear
Brené Brown Admires Joe Biden's Leadership Capabilities
Men & Women Have Different Shame Triggers: Weakness vs. Perfection
Kara Swisher Thinks Elizabeth Warren Is Like a Schoolmarm
Women Leaders Were More Successful at Limiting COVID-19 Deaths
Kara Swisher Interlude
COVID-19 Revealed the Need for Courageous Leadership Amid Vulnerable Times
After COVID-19, Brené Will Never Take Social Gatherings for Granted
Brené Brown Calls for More Regulation Against Facebook
If Brené Brown Could Be a Superhero, Who Would It Be?
For Brené Brown, Parenting Is an Exercise in Vulnerability
Kara Swisher Remembers Crying While Having a Stroke
Brené & Kara Outro
Kara Swisher Outro
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